Thanks a lot.
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This site is a little project that lets me make fun of some things and sense of others. I use it to think a little more relationally without resorting to doing actual math.
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February 1st, 2010 at 12:58 pm
Not sure I understand “Rare”. Can someone explain? Thanks (the common one!)
February 1st, 2010 at 1:56 pm
People are good at spewing out thank yous for the things that they don’t necessarily really need or want, but receive anyways. a sincere thank you for something of real value doesn’t require anything more than a simple thank you, yet sometimes the hardest part.
February 1st, 2010 at 1:58 pm
There’s a “Well Done!” joke in here somewhere.
February 1st, 2010 at 2:16 pm
is it that we are all ingrates? rarely saying thank you when we should be truly grateful, but rather off-handedly dropping thank yous on lots of things that don’t really matter.
February 1st, 2010 at 2:21 pm
Like the title. It’s punny!
February 1st, 2010 at 8:28 pm
I think the diagram means that most people say thanks but aren’t really grateful. But it’s rare to find someone who says “thanks” and really means it.
February 1st, 2010 at 10:53 pm
Yeah, I tend to say it sarcastically.
I do mean it from time to time, though… either that, or just to get someone off my back.
February 1st, 2010 at 11:14 pm
And those who are grateful rarely say it, because they are shy or they never get the chance.
Or at least, that is the case when what you are grateful for comes from someone you don’t know. Which is the case in which you are most grateful, because you don’t expect it.
I put too much thought into this one.
February 1st, 2010 at 11:15 pm
Typo. *Which is the case when you are most grateful
February 2nd, 2010 at 11:06 am
Love the title!
I wonder what would be on the upper right of the graph.
February 2nd, 2010 at 1:01 pm
@Kate … no you didn’t. Thanks for playing!
@Jessica… Grateful for “Indexed” .. and thanks for fixing the picture a little while ago!
February 3rd, 2010 at 1:03 pm
I think the graph depicts that thanks with little gratitude evaluates to “common” and that gratitude without thanks evaluates to “rare”.
February 3rd, 2010 at 2:18 pm
How about silent gratitude that is felt in the heart without a word spoken… the contentment of a newborn after a good feed with her mother… I’d say that is pretty common if not universal.
Then we ‘grow up’ and learn how to think and talk and say ‘thank you’ all the time even when we don’t feel gratitude! It seems like we lose this ability to enjoy a simple moment in gratitude
February 4th, 2010 at 2:07 pm
“Thank you” is an expression while gratitude is a feeling. “Thank you” can be faked-true gratitude can’t.
February 4th, 2010 at 2:43 pm
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